{"id":643,"date":"2023-06-07T10:23:15","date_gmt":"2023-06-07T09:23:15","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/frankobermeier.com\/blog\/?p=643"},"modified":"2023-06-07T10:23:17","modified_gmt":"2023-06-07T09:23:17","slug":"what-if-you-dont-like-people-no-more","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/frankobermeier.com\/blog\/index.php\/2023\/06\/07\/what-if-you-dont-like-people-no-more\/","title":{"rendered":"What, if you don\u2018t like people (no more)?"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>A question, that strikes me from time to time \u2013 without any clear reason.<br>If you recognize, that you don\u2018t like people or you don\u2018t like them no more \u2013 what do you do? You continue engaging and trying to find a way to like the respective people? Or do you disengage, just state the truth and act accordingly?<br>At the moment, I am debating this with myself and my partner to an extend, that it annoys me. I am just spending too much time thinking about how to deal with this or that person. Instead of just embarrassing it and live along these lines. Means \u2013 if you really know that you don\u2019t like somebody (no more), just walk away in a proper, but clear way and don\u2019t make a too big fuzz about it. Better to clear your mind, better to be honest. And don\u2019t bother, if you just don\u2019t like somebody \u2013 this happens!<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>A question, that strikes me from time to time \u2013 without any clear reason.If you recognize, that you don\u2018t like people or you don\u2018t like them no more \u2013 what do you do? You continue engaging and trying to find a way to like the respective people? Or do you&hellip;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"_jetpack_feature_clip_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":"","jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false},"categories":[48],"tags":[300],"class_list":["post-643","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-advise","tag-be-clear"],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","jetpack-related-posts":[{"id":513,"url":"https:\/\/frankobermeier.com\/blog\/index.php\/2023\/04\/05\/everything-ai-just-like-everything-com\/","url_meta":{"origin":643,"position":0},"title":"Everything AI &#8211; just like everything .com","author":"Frank Obermeier","date":"April 5, 2023","format":false,"excerpt":"Stable Diffusion 2, Lumen5, Soundraw, Dall-E 2 - you never heard of that? 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