{"id":643,"date":"2023-06-07T10:23:15","date_gmt":"2023-06-07T09:23:15","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/frankobermeier.com\/blog\/?p=643"},"modified":"2023-06-07T10:23:17","modified_gmt":"2023-06-07T09:23:17","slug":"what-if-you-dont-like-people-no-more","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/frankobermeier.com\/blog\/index.php\/2023\/06\/07\/what-if-you-dont-like-people-no-more\/","title":{"rendered":"What, if you don\u2018t like people (no more)?"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>A question, that strikes me from time to time &#8211; without any clear reason.<br>If you recognize, that you don\u2018t like people or you don\u2018t like them no more &#8211; what do you do? You continue engaging and trying to find a way to like the respective people? Or do you disengage, just state the truth and act accordingly?<br>At the moment, I am debating this with myself and my partner to an extend, that it annoys me. I am just spending too much time thinking about how to deal with this or that person. Instead of just embarrassing it and live along these lines. Means &#8211; if you really know that you don\u2019t like somebody (no more), just walk away in a proper, but clear way and don\u2019t make a too big fuzz about it. Better to clear your mind, better to be honest. And don\u2019t bother, if you just don\u2019t like somebody &#8211; this happens!<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>A question, that strikes me from time to time &#8211; without any clear reason.If you recognize, that you don\u2018t like people or you don\u2018t like them no more &#8211; what do you do? You continue engaging and trying to find a way to like the respective people? Or do you&hellip;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[48],"tags":[300],"class_list":["post-643","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-advise","tag-be-clear"],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","jetpack-related-posts":[{"id":576,"url":"https:\/\/frankobermeier.com\/blog\/index.php\/2023\/04\/23\/ki-labeled-on-everything\/","url_meta":{"origin":643,"position":0},"title":"KI &#8211; labeled on everything","author":"Frank Obermeier","date":"April 23, 2023","format":false,"excerpt":"Well, I am German, so Michael Schuhmacher is obviously somebody I grew up with. 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